You can look like you have it all together and still feel like you're disappearing.

You can’t come home to yourself if you’re still trying to be someone else’s version of okay.

There’s a version of coaching I used to offer. The kind that handed people the perfect next step, the quick answer, the blueprint. It wasn’t wrong. It just wasn’t where the real shift happened. Because if you’re constantly solving the surface, you never meet what’s underneath.

The work I do now lives in the pause. In the breath after a woman says, “I miss myself.” It lives in the space where a high performing woman whispers, “I don’t feel anything anymore.” Where a caretaker says, “I think I disappeared. And no one noticed.” Where a founder of a successful business admits, “I’m good at this. I just don’t want to do it anymore.” And I don’t jump in with solutions. I sit with her. I breathe with her. I ask the question underneath her question. Because when a woman says those things out loud, what she needs isn’t a plan.

She needs to be witnessed. She needs to stop pretending she’s fine. She needs to go get her girl.

The one who danced in the kitchen. The one who dreamed for herself. The one who didn’t overthink every move. And not so she can return to some past version but so she can finally come home to herself.

That’s what we do in Unedited. We stop performing. We stop curating. We tell the truth. Slowly. Honestly. Out loud. Sometimes we cry in the middle of a sentence. Sometimes we laugh at how much we’ve been carrying. Sometimes we sit in silence and let the body speak before the mind catches up. Sometimes we say, “I don’t know who I am anymore.” And then, for the first time, we listen for the answer. We stop making our value about what we produce. We stop waiting for someone else to tell us we can rest. We stop asking for permission to feel our own love.

If you’re ready to stop shrinking around what you really want. If you’re done being the most capable person in the room and still feeling the least seen. If you’re not in crisis, but you’re not okay either.

This is your invitation.

Let’s go get your girl 🤘

Because you count just as much as the ones who count on you 🖤